Where you stand depends on where you sit. 

My college mentor told me that and it has always resonated with me. I have used this when traveling in other countries, when visiting other cultures within our own country, and I remind myself of this often when people are standing up for something to remember to look where they sit. I am curious about where you sit…. I believe that when we can be curious it allows for compassion and empathy and understanding and love to grow. I encourage you to be curious and not afraid… spread love and not fear…. offer compassion and not judgement…. and if this causes you distress or makes you angry, I really hope you get curious about why?  And above all else I hope when it comes to others living their authentic truthful beautiful life and celebrating their love…. unless your keeping them to say “FUCK YEAH!”….you have no fucks to give. XO Lulu